Posted by: heatherinparadise | November 6, 2009

Halloween 2009

My favorite night of the year has come and gone once again.  Playa del Carmen’s Halloween action just seems to get better and better each passing year.  This was my 6th Halloween here and each year it seems the costumes get more creative, parties wilder, and decorations more elaborate.  Here are a few photos.


Kiss deserved every accolade and prize they won that night…they were fantastic.  Costumes totally homemade with bits and pieces of various items (tubing, garden hose), covered in lots of glitter and spray paint.  Phenomenal job, guys.

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I thought my costume turned out pretty well, too…it sure was a handful of hours and two burned-out glue guns to get all those feathers onto the fan.  Kudos to my friend Anita, who brought me 100 peacock tail feathers and the blue wig; all the rest was scrounged up here.  I was lucky enough to win the Best Female Costume contest at Luna Blue Bar, 500 pesos!! I also won a free dive with Abyss Dive Shop from La Ranita Bar (but I don’t dive, is anyone interested?).


I am so naughty…the look on Centaur Corbin’s face cracks me UP.


I just love how Playenses really get into their costumes.


Dick in a Box

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I was kind of trapped outside most of the bars…the tail was great, but I think I’ll go with something easier to manage next year.

Posted by: heatherinparadise | November 5, 2009

Diving In Headfirst

Gulp.  I don’t know how to start, so I’ll just throw this out there:  In June, my 8.5 year relationship and 4 month engagement ended.  The decision was mine, and it was not undertaken lightly.  Without going too far into the highly personal stuff that went into this decision, I will say that this end was the result of years of heavy thought, an almost totally debilitating depression, and tureens of tears.  Finally, it felt necessary in the way that surgery to save one’s life is necessary, but it was the most difficult decision I have ever made.

The last almost-five months since the breakup have been an enormous learning curve for me.  For the first two months, I felt like someone awakening from a long coma who had to relearn how to walk, talk, smile, swallow.  Although I have always been a person who enjoys her alone time, at times the loneliness has been crushing, and feelings of guilt at hurting someone I have cared about for nearly a decade weighed upon me like the lead apron the dentist uses to protect you while taking x-rays.

The third month, I started to feel somewhat better.  Although I could not go out, could not see people, didn’t want to blog, didn’t want to work, didn’t want to talk about it, I started to improve.  I spent my afternoons in the pool and my evenings alone, reflecting.  In the last two months, poco a poco, as Mexicans say, I have crawled out of the depression and started inching back toward the self I knew I really was…one grain of gratitude and happiness at a time.

I’m happy, though I still suffer at night from time to time when I lie in bed in the dark and think about how this happiness has been selfishly won by hurting another human being.  There is no joy in what I felt I had to do.

But there is joy, and this is something I had resigned myself to thinking was not meant for me.

Posted by: heatherinparadise | October 16, 2009

Tap tap tap…Is this thing on?

I couldn’t even remember the password to log into this blog.  My domain had expired. I had 4,021 comments to sort through.  Like a patient coming out of a coma, I had to relearn how to even write a new post.  The moon was aligned with Jupiter.  A beast with six heads arose from the sea, and all six heads were wearing crowns.

I owe a huge apology to the three of you still checking this.  I’ve got lots of stories, so many stories you’ll grow sick of me.  I’m on my way back; I think it’s still going to be about another week before I can get back into the groove.

Consider this a warning.  See you soon, dollfaces.

Posted by: heatherinparadise | May 22, 2009

Bomberos’ Three Legged Race Video

I know it’s been months now since the Three Legged Race/Bar Crawl Fundraiser for the Riviera Maya Bomberos, but I’ve just now been given the resulting video of the event, made by my talented friend, Ken Brownlee, of Visual Media Productions. Can you spot Sara and me?

If you’d like to learn more about the history and current mission/goals of the Riviera Maya Bomberos organization, here is a video of the incomparable Comandante/Director Brian Borjesson

Thanks again, from the bottom of my heart, for your continued support of the Riviera Maya Bomberos.  Hopefully we will never need them, but it’s reassuring to know we’ve got them on our side.

Posted by: heatherinparadise | May 10, 2009

Chicago Architectural Tour

I’ve just returned from a week-long trip to my beloved Chicago.  My friend Sara joined me and, as it was her first trip, we decided to do something touristy that I’d always wanted to do, but never had.  We took an architectural boat tour down the Chicago River.  We were both really impressed with the tour; I especially could not believe things I’d walked by a hundred times without noticing.

Chicago is a beautiful city and holds a place in my heart that no other city in the world will ever begin to touch.

Marina Towers

Had no idea there were water taxis in Chicago.

I thought it was cool the way the other buildings were reflected in the glass of this one.

I find this one strangely gorgeous.

To paraphrase Sharon Olds, “The el still slides by with that ease that made me bitter when I wanted all things hard as your death was hard.”  Amazing, the heady mix of memories that can be conjured up when witnessing something you find incredibly beautiful.

River City condominiums.  Super weird, but interesting homes.

Good luck trying to get people to call it Willis Tower, jackasses.

Trump Tower.  Not as heinous as I thought it would be.  In fact, I kind of like it.

Trump Tower juxtaposed with its architectural anti-twin, the Wrigley Building.  It works somehow, right?

I was pretty damned cold for much of this tour.

I love you, Chicago, for all you have to offer and for every single ghost of my life I’ve left you to care for until I return.

Posted by: heatherinparadise | May 8, 2009

Is everyone just super mad at me?

All four of you still checking this blog, I mean? I really have nothing to say about my absence; I’ve been really busy, but also just really not feeling it. I’ve got months of backed-up blogs for you, SCADS of them, so many you’re going to tire of me, and now that in about a week I will be fully caught up on work for this lower-than-low season, I will have time to write them.

I’m just back from a week in Chicago, where I had important banking business to do to help make it easier to transfer/receive client funds, but I also managed to fit in some fun stuff.

Thanks to the genius that is Ben Wahhh at Deluxe Tattoo in Chicago, my Virgen de Guadalupe tattoo is finally adorning my left arm. I couldn’t be happier with it.

Several years ago, I decided to get this particular tattoo to honor my time in Mexico, and when thinking of an image that represented Mexico to me, nothing was more perfect than the Virgin. Plus, I’ve always liked religious imagery (although I am not religious myself) and well, look at her…she’s gorgeous. Another thing I love about this tattoo is how it is already bridging a gap between me and the Mexican people I live around. It’s a great conduit for conversation, smiles, and positive comments; I’ve been home 2 days and have already talked about it so much.

By the way, now is the time to come to Playa del Carmen, airfare is GREAT and this flu nonsense is under control.  I have my own theories about why all this was blown so far out of proportion, but I’ll keep them to myself for now.

Back soon as I can be, I promise.  I miss you like crazy.

Posted by: heatherinparadise | April 15, 2009

New Local H video

I know how much I owe you guys, but unfortunately I’m not in any position right now to make it up to you. I’ll be back the absolute minute I can be.

In the meantime, enjoy my friends’ new video. It cracked me up.

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Posted by: heatherinparadise | March 18, 2009

You’re totally busted, dude.

This morning, after my weekly hour-long wait in the bank line, I hopped onto one of the tiny little colectivos to head back to the office. These particular colectivos are miniscule vans with seats around the inside rear cargo area and standing room in the center aisle. These vans are NOT ideal for anyone over, say, 5’5″ tall. Needless to say, when I get into and out of these “vans,” it’s like watching a clown at the circus getting out of a mini car.

The colectivo was pretty full when I got on and, as usual, there was blatant gawking at the rare appearance of a gringa on the route. I stood in the center aisle, but a woman tapped me and indicated a small space on the seat next to her.

Not wanting to be rude and decline her offer, and also hoping to straighten my back and remove my head from the roof, I squished myself next to her. In the process, I accidentally butted up against the legs of the teen boy to my left, who immediately jerked his knees away from my ass.

I heard the man across from me say, in Spanish, “She’s bigger than Mexicans,” with a sly nudge nudge/wink wink tone.

I looked right in his eyes and replied, in Spanish, “Yes, I have a big ass.”

His eyes got as big as saucers as he said, “You understand Spanish?!” Everyone around him laughed, as did I, and we chatted for the next 10 blocks.

Always an adventure.

Posted by: heatherinparadise | March 17, 2009

Last call before Sara and Heather drink too much alcohol!!

We’re just three days away from the annual Three Legged Race/Bar Crawl to benefit the Riviera Maya Bomberos.

The struggling economy has proved difficult for fundraising this year,  and it’s fairly apparent we’re not going to meet or exceed last year’s donation total, but we’re still pretty stoked that we’ve raised a total of 1,422 usd to date!!!  Yay, you people!

If any of you are in town, you MUST come down to La Ranita Bar, part of La Rana Cansada hotel on Calle 10 between avenidas 5 and 10, starting at 7 pm.  Will this be the year that Heather’s “no-puke streak” ends? Only time will tell.

There’s still time to help our hardworking, life-risking firefighters earn money for needed equipment and training!  No donation is too big or too small, every single centavo helps.

And remember, the highest individual donor gets to go on a date with Sara and Heather!

If you’d like to sponsor our team and raise money for Firemen who desperately need you, please donate by going to www.PayPal.com and clicking on the link that says “send money.” Then just follow the prompts to donate directly to us by using the following email address:

info@caribesunrise.com

Please be sure to write in your comments/subject line “Three Legged Race.” We will keep you updated with donation totals.

For further information or to register your team please call: 984-135-1233 or e-mail:

kegsbar@hotmail.com

We are also taking business/corporate sponsors!!  Contact us at info@caribesunrise.com or editor@playamayanews.com if you’d like to be mentioned on Playa Maya News, Playa.info, and Heather in Paradise!!

Posted by: heatherinparadise | March 16, 2009

Ask an Expat! The catch-up edition.

The past couple of months have found me really, really busy at work and I’ve neglected the emails I’ve gotten from my readers.  Today, I caught up quite a bit, so am now able to answer these mails.

Welcome to the 2nd installment of Ask an Expat!

Q.
My family and I have been to Playa before, love it there, will be back this week. You have a great website about it; one thing I was wondering, though– do you know if there is anywhere in Playa to get the NY Times or even the Miami Herald?

Also, do you have a link to the property mgmnt website you mentioned?
It really is a beautiful place….

A.

Thank you for your mail!  I don’t know of any location in Playa that sells the NY Times, I wish there was!  There is a Miami Herald-Cancun edition, but it’s pretty useless, in my opinion.  Mostly advertising about Cancun destinations or real estate.

You can find my business website at www.caribesunrise.com

Q.

I am thinking about moving down there from California but am getting mixed messages from people regarding finding work if you are an American. The person who gave me your email address said it will be very hard if not impossible to get a job and that I will run out of money and probably end up having to move back home.
I am 40, I have a girlfriend that is about 27, who has been living in Cancun and now Playa del Carmen for the past year and she says that she gets jobs fairly easy and resorts and tourist places want Americans to work there and they get the work permits for you and just take a little money out of each check to cover the costs. right now she is selling timeshares and although she is not making great $$ she has made enough to stay a whole year so far.. Is is possible to make $$$ or do most people come down there and fail??
Do you have any tips or suggestions???? Thanks
A.
It is not easy to find a job here as a foreigner, but it is not impossible.  You have to be persistent and dedicated, however.
You should make sure to save enough money that you could live on for at least 3-6 months while you search for a job.  If you’re willing to work in timeshares, it will likely be easier for you to find a job.  That wasn’t an option for me, but I did luck into a job simply by keeping my ears open, participating in local forums, and being in the right place at the right time.  Now I own my own business, though it is still not successful enough for me to not work for others.

My best advice is to do your research and really prepare yourself for what living here entails.  Dealing with immigration is a necessary, but awful part of life here.  It’s expensive and frustrating, and not all employers are willing to help cover that cost.  I’m unsure of what the housing market is like in Cancun, but here in Playa, rent is high.  Be prepared to work 6 days a week.

I think it’s most important that you have realistic expectations about what life in “paradise” is like.  People find it hard to believe when I’ve said that at times, living here can be quite hard. Often they roll their eyes and say, sarcastically, poor baby!  They can’t believe that I can go 6 months and not step foot on 5th avenue…or on the beach.  Sad, but true is the fact that, apart from yesterday, I had not been to the beach in months . Like most of us here, I work 6 days a week and on Sunday, typically attend to the little household chores and errands that don’t get done during the week, so it can be difficult to fit in beach time. Furthermore, one of the things we agreed to upon moving here was a reduced standard of living and low cash flow, so we stick to things we can afford, which leaves out most of the activities that tourists enjoy.

If you still want to move here, after you’ve thought long and hard about all of these things and done your research on the various forums, then sell your crap and come on down.  It’s true that many people don’t make it and pack up and leave, but the tenacious, realistic ones will make it.  Cream rises, baby.

Ok, two more questions tomorrow.  Ciao, bellos!

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