Comments on: Diving In Headfirst http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/ I have been through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened. Sat, 11 Feb 2012 00:33:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Craig http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/#comment-6957 Thu, 10 Dec 2009 01:30:34 +0000 http://heatherinparadise.com/?p=644#comment-6957 You’ve one great big hug coming in March iffin’ ya need it!

]]> By: Brenda http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/#comment-6897 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 21:46:25 +0000 http://heatherinparadise.com/?p=644#comment-6897 We have missed you Heather and am so glad you are on the road to healing. Just be patient with yourself and take some time each day to meditate and you will be amazed at what life will send your way. You are a brave and kind person and hope to see you again in Playa in the spring. We have only met once at Bad Boys but it was one of the great pleasures of my trip .

]]> By: Mel :) http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/#comment-6895 Wed, 18 Nov 2009 16:17:01 +0000 http://heatherinparadise.com/?p=644#comment-6895 Hugs gorgeous! :)

I did this once…he was very nice-there was nothing wrong with him-it was me. I broke his heart into pieces..:(

Over 10 years later I am married to Nick with 2 kids & he is very happily married with 2 kids to a really nice girl. It was what was meant to be…at the time it sure didn’t feel as though!

Take care! I am glad you are having a relationship with yourself-you’re gonna luv her! ;)

Melissa :)

]]> By: peter http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/#comment-6894 Mon, 16 Nov 2009 17:17:37 +0000 http://heatherinparadise.com/?p=644#comment-6894 Beautifully written.

Making the right choice is not always the easy option. Still, when you look back later on it`ll make sense even if it doesn`t right now.

Peace

P.S. Good to see you blogging again.

]]> By: Cathy http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/#comment-6887 Tue, 10 Nov 2009 22:14:01 +0000 http://heatherinparadise.com/?p=644#comment-6887 Heather, you are a great person, and you deserve the very best life has to offer. Enjoy it, and don’t beat yourself up.
Hugs

]]> By: heatherinparadise http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/#comment-6886 Mon, 09 Nov 2009 22:07:40 +0000 http://heatherinparadise.com/?p=644#comment-6886 Ah, Jillian, how did you know? That poem is one I have revisited often throughout my adult life. I have been the one to end every one of my adult relationships and have often said of myself that I am, perhaps selfishly, not one to go down with a sinking ship. I always save myself. Ouch.

]]> By: jillian http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/#comment-6885 Mon, 09 Nov 2009 20:16:45 +0000 http://heatherinparadise.com/?p=644#comment-6885 http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/15228

]]> By: jillian http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/#comment-6884 Mon, 09 Nov 2009 20:08:20 +0000 http://heatherinparadise.com/?p=644#comment-6884 the internet has missed your voice, and so have I. welcome back.

]]> By: heatherinparadise http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/#comment-6883 Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:22:35 +0000 http://heatherinparadise.com/?p=644#comment-6883 I am so grateful for each of you who have commented and shared your virtual hugs, love, and stories. Thank you.

]]> By: kathy http://heatherinparadise.com/2009/11/05/diving-in-headfirst/#comment-6882 Mon, 09 Nov 2009 15:46:41 +0000 http://heatherinparadise.com/?p=644#comment-6882 I broke up with a Really Nice Guy once and broke his heart. I just knew I had outgrown the relationship and wthe logical conclusion would have been marriage and I just didn’t see him as my mate. I broke his heart and felt like dirt doing it, but it was necessary. I think really, in the long run, for both of us. We kept in contact and hen lost contact but I’ll always fondly remember him. And know I made the right decision.

Good luck and heal.

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