On Sundays in Mexico, a lot of people get really, really drunk. It’s their only day off, they have very hard lives, and alcohol (as I’m sure many of us know) can deaden pain. Despite all my years of masking my own pain with weekend benders, I still can’t hold a candle to some of the drunk Mexicans I’ve seen.
It’s not in the least surprising to go for a stroll on a hot, sunny Sunday afternoon and have to step over a man who is blissfully unconscious on a dirty sidewalk, often with his feet lying totally in the roadway. Occasionally, this man is fully clothed, but most times, not.
At times when I pass these drunk men, I feel stupidly happy for them, since I know that at that very moment they are at rest; that they think and feel nothing (glorious, beautiful nothing). I have always been a Bukowski fan, after all. Other times, it’s all I can do not to cry on the street.
Doris, a woman who is a member of the forum I work for, visited Playa del Carmen and snapped photos on the beach on New Year’s Day, documenting the aftermath of the night before. There apparently were many people passed out on the beach.
She took one picture that stopped me in my tracks. At first, it was comical, but now when I look at it, it seems tragic, like a crime scene. He’s missing only the chalk outline around his body.

I’m thinking maybe I should cut down on the weekend drinking.
January 11, 2008 at 12:02 am
I’m thinking that might be a darn good idea.
January 11, 2008 at 1:56 am
I love alcohol. It brings out the best and the worst in people. It makes the boring interesting. It makes the shy brave. It makes the ugly beautiful. It makes the dull interesting. Mostly… it allows us, for a brief time, to be who we really think we are.
Apparently this man thought he should be Rumplestiltskin.
All things in moderation, my dear.
January 11, 2008 at 9:05 am
Awe, poor guy. Eeew! Sand in his mouth I am sure.
I don’t think your friends would ever leave you this way, had you become this drunk. right?
January 11, 2008 at 9:58 am
You, my dear, are one witchy woman. I think about this topic often and have wondered about how I would blog about it.I have to admit that the culture of drinking in Mexico was one of the reasons I ultimately decided to leave, especially because it hit painfully close to home.
Not that I don’t love to tie one on, but when I see this, I don’t want to cry, rather I get angry. Mostly because I’ve seen the aftermath with their families.
I know men who drink their entire sueldo and have nothing left to feed their families.
Ay, ay…I could go on for a while, but I think I’ll stop here!
January 11, 2008 at 10:14 am
I have seen this one too many times myself and sometimes I wonder if I should call 911. Oops I mean 060.
January 11, 2008 at 10:35 am
Hey Heather…. I come here for my daily laugh … Remember to add a cute quirky bit next time…
January 11, 2008 at 5:23 pm
Or maybe some more drinking during the week might help?
January 11, 2008 at 10:50 pm
Heather! You would have to drink A LOT and ALONE… I think you’re safe… but some of those people are not and that is sad….
January 13, 2008 at 9:44 am
[...] has long been an uncomfortable backdrop to my adoration of the culture. Reading Heather’s Lost Weekend post and Yucatan Living’s editorial, The Dark Side of Yucatan, reminded me of my first experience [...]
January 15, 2008 at 11:30 am
It is sad that it is not just special occasions that lead to this kind of behaviour. I go into work everyday at 6:30 am and often see several men passed out on the sidewalk with an empty caguama beside them (though they often don’t have shoes anymore and usually their privates are hanging out).
January 15, 2008 at 2:48 pm
If they would just stay drunken passed out on the beach it would be one thing, but the drunken stumble onto the highway thing is really sad- so many lives damaged from those kinda of accidents.
January 15, 2008 at 2:49 pm
ewwwwwwe to privates hanging out lol!
January 15, 2008 at 7:03 pm
I saw that picture on Doris thread and it made me sad…those pictures always do.
You, however, have nothing to worry about I very certain of that!
January 15, 2008 at 7:04 pm
Oh…forgot to tell you, I forgot your website, so I googled it…2nd link on the list…not to shabby!